We often make judgments about people based on appearances, and that way of thinking trickles in when it comes to making decisions about who we want to work with, buy from, or support. We may not recognize it when it’s happening, but I can assure you…it’s happening.

I would estimate that just about everyone dislikes having a camera pointed in their direction, just as much as hearing their voice on a recording. You'll be happy to know that you aren't alone. In fact, I can tell you as an empowerment photographer I have never had a client book a session BECAUSE they know they look Bangin in all their photos.

Our bodies are amazing and our desires are real. We must be open to exploring our pleasure. We must be open to learning from ourselves and our partners without shame or fear of judgment. That’s where the magic happens.

Here’s the thing: everything we’ve been taught works against us. Women are sold the idea that they will only feel sexy when they win the male gaze, and/or are selected or praised for their looks.