I would estimate that just about everyone dislikes having a camera pointed in their direction, just as much as hearing their voice on a recording. You'll be happy to know that you aren't alone. In fact, I can tell you as an empowerment photographer I have never had a client book a session BECAUSE they know they look Bangin in all their photos.

I fell into the complex of the “strong black woman.” That we can take on insurmountable pressure without showing any signs of stress while continuing to be everything to everyone.  I was consumed with the baby and navigating a relatively new relationship, completely neglecting myself.

I had to get comfortable with solitude, trading weekends out for nights in. Like any commitment, my relationship with myself takes dedication. My self-care is more important than date nights with my husband. Yes, I believe that putting myself first, setting high expectations of others and learning to set boundaries allowed me to call in true love.

"Act like a lady. Be nice. Don't be such a bitch."

We've all heard it, haven't we?