We often make judgments about people based on appearances, and that way of thinking trickles in when it comes to making decisions about who we want to work with, buy from, or support. We may not recognize it when it’s happening, but I can assure you…it’s happening.
I had to get comfortable with solitude, trading weekends out for nights in. Like any commitment, my relationship with myself takes dedication. My self-care is more important than date nights with my husband. Yes, I believe that putting myself first, setting high expectations of others and learning to set boundaries allowed me to call in true love.
Here’s the thing: everything we’ve been taught works against us. Women are sold the idea that they will only feel sexy when they win the male gaze, and/or are selected or praised for their looks.
"Act like a lady. Be nice. Don't be such a bitch."
We've all heard it, haven't we?